Friday, August 20, 2004

Kid's say the darnest things ......

Few months back : Wardah & Amsyar were having 'sibling chat ' on my bed while i'm on the net.There's lots of stuff they talked & argued about but the best of all is when the topic of having their own babies in the future.

Wardah have been telling us that she does not wanna get marry .....no reason given when we asked her that time.She just said "tak nak!! " and would "clamp" herself up especially when Amsyar pestering her about it ...

As the sibling chat continues ..more funny conversation among them ..like :

Amsyar : "Amsyar nak baby yang cute macam Irfan"
Wardah : " kakak pun same ..nak 2 cute babies "
Amsyar : "eehhh mana boleh ...kakak tak nak marry....macam mana nak ada 2 baby ? "

Me: just could not stop hearing amsyar comment to his sister reply..boleh tahan juga si Amsyar ni.!!

Then yesterday afternoon ..the kids are having "bonding" time with dh in our room.I heard lots of giggling , laughing, pestering,argueing and wrestling from the room .......
later at night dh told me what the kids reply when dh asked them "why they don't wanna get marry "...

Amsyar reason : he don't wanna get marry ..pasal nanti kena "kiss" the girl.

Wardah reason pulak : she tak nak marry pasal ...nanti bila nak give birth kena "potong perut"(C-section) like ibu....sakit !! ....
As i listened to her reason .. i felt like this ,then then .

I don't know why she had that "idea" from...as far as i could remember..i tried not to "frightened" her about the experience on giving birth..usually i would reply that :it's very worthwhile or the pain is not painful as it sound.

Hopefully later down the road..she will realise that not all pregnancy has to end with a c-section.