Tuesday, May 04, 2004

A reminder for us ,as a muslim parents

ABC of Parenting




A - Always trust your children to Allah's care.
B- Bring them to the Masjids.
C- Challenge them to high goals In deen.
D- Delight in their achievements "Masha`Allah"
E- Exalt Allah in their presence "Subhaan`Allah"
F- Frown on evil " Astaghfirullah"
G- Give them love and understanding
H- Hear their problems, be there for them.
I- Ignore not their childish fears, tel them Allah is Always there.
J- Joyfully accept their apologies, Allah is All Forgiving.
K- Keep their confidence.
L- Live a good example before them, Islamic ettiquettes.
M- Make them your friends.
N- Never ignore their endless questions!
O- Open your heart to their love.
P- Pray for them by name, ......May Allah make them
the coolness of your eyes.
Q- Quicken your interest in their spirituality, Dhikrullah
(rememberance of Allah)
R- Remember their needs, show mercy to them
S- Show them the way of Our Prophet Muhammad and his
companions. (peace be upon them All)
T- Teach them to appreciate every little in life. "Alhamdulillah"
U- Understand they are still young and Innocent. "Fitrah"
V- Verify your statements, speak clearly (Repeat it 3 times) like the
way Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) used to.
W- Wean them from bad company.
X- eXpect them to obey, Allah and their parents,
Y- Yearn for Allah's best for them.
Z- Zealously guide them in the Qur'aan and Sunnah
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Insha'Allah Ameen ya Rabbul `alameen